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Web Resources for Parents

Several other college counseling centers have put together resources for parents; these materials are aimed at helping parents deal with their son or daughter's transition to college. Follow the links below for more information.

Parent Survival Guide--This excellent page from Shenandoah University contains information on personal and academic transitions, as well as nine useful, well-described tips for parents of college students.

Just for Parents--The University of Texas offers coping strategies as well as suggestions for how to help your child from a distance.

Parent Resources--George Washington University provides information on what both parents and students may experience during the transition to college. They also offer suggestions on how to support your child as well as describe how counseling services can be helpful.

Parents and Families Resource Page--Westfield State College offers a list of many additional helpful sites of particular interest to parents and families.

What Parents Need to Know about College Drinking--An excellent resource page on things to consider when your child is choosing a college, staying involved during your child's freshman year, and getting assistance if your child is involved in an alcohol incident.

SPEAK to Your Children in College--New York State's program for suicide prevention and education, or SPEAK, encourages ALL parents of college-aged students to familiarize themselves with both the stressors of college life and the symptoms of depression in order facilitate communication with your children. SPEAK to your son or daughter about suicide now!

Recommend Reading

The book The College of the Overwhelmed: The Campus Mental Health Crisis and What To Do About It provides an excellent overview of the various psychological and emotional stressors commonly faced by college students. The book is intended to familiarize parents with these issues as well as to offer strategies for how parents can help their children; there is a section specifically designed for students as well.

Parent's Story - This is wonderful poem about the experience of leaving your child at college. Grab some tissues before you read!

Don't Tell Me What To Do, Just Send Money written by Helen E. Johnson and Christine Schelhas-Miller
When children leave for college, many parents feel uncertain about their shifting roles. By emphasizing the importance of being a mentor to your college student, Don't Tell Me What To Do, Just Send Money shows parents how to influence their college student while still supporting their independence. The authors offer valuable insight into the minds of college students and provide parents with simple suggestions for improving communication with their children. Filled with humorous anecdotes and realistic dialogs between parents and students, this comprehensive guide covers a wide range of issues including financial matters, academic concerns, social adjustment, and postgraduate choices.

Empty Nest...Full Heart: the Journey from Home to College written by Andrea VanSteenhouse, Ph.D.
The author chronicles the tumultuous journey from the senior year of high school, through the challenging summer, to the first year of college for students. Featuring an emphasis on the freshman experience, Empty Nest...Full Heart offers a lighthearted yet savvy look at this turbulent time. The book's generous and compassionate scope makes it lively, humorous, an emotionally resonant.

Helping Your First Year College Student Succeed written by Richard H.
Mullendore and Cathie Hatch of the National Orientation Director's Association
This informational pamphlet focuses on "letting go" as a long-term process that should never be completed. The authors encourage parents to renegotiate their relationship with their student as an adult. This concise guide features ten sections about the major events and feelings parents and students will likely experience during the first year of college and offers suggestions for resolving these issues.

Let the Journey Begin: A Parent's Monthly Guide to the College Experience written by Jacqueline Kiernan MacKay
As you and your first-year college student begin the school year, many questions may arise. Parent Orientation will be one opportunity to get answers to your questions. Knowing what to ask will help you maximize the benefits of your orientation. Use the strategies in Let the Journey Begin to tackle problems and find solutions. Start with these questions and review more FAQ's in Chapter 2. Remember, there is always something new to learn!

Letting Go: A Parents' Guide to Understanding the College Years written by Karen Levin Coburn and Madge Lawrence Treeger
Letting Go leads parents through the period of transition that their student experiences between the junior year of high school and college graduation. The authors explain how to distinguish normal development stages from problems that may require parental or professional intervention. The new edition explains the differences between college life today and the college life parents experienced twenty or thirty years ago. It features a completely new resource guide that introduces parents to campus technology, useful websites, and other organizations providing information on a wide range of topics.

When Kids Go to College: A Parents Guide to Changing Relationships written by Barbara M. Newman and Philip Newman
This practical guide will answer that important question and tell you how to make the most of these exciting years. Topics covered in this book are: identity formation, values development, career exploration, social relationships, sexuality, alcohol and drug abuse, romantic relationships, dorm life, personal freedom, depression, discrimination, and college bureaucracy.

How To Survive in an Empty Nest: Reclaiming Your Life When Your Children Have Grown, by Robert Lauer, 1999.

Almost Grown: Launching Your Child From High School to College, by Patrick Pasick, 1998


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